See The Seven Reasons Why You Should Say Yes To His Marraige Proposal

Oh! That initial feeling; so powerful, so intense. Your heart can't stop skipping each time you two come together. Its just so nice getting to be with that one very special person. As it gets serious and more serious, looking like this union is going somewhere deeper and nice. Emotions begins to swell. Again your heart skips a bit more each time he is anywhere in sight because you know that what is coming might be a lifetime union.

Yeah! Marraige is about to happen....One question begins to pop up at intervals. How do you know for sure that he is the right guy?

 Here are seven easy signs he's the right guy

 1. You fascinate him :

A guy who's intrigued by you and takes the time to really know you is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. He takes delight in every thing you do. He'll show it, too.

2.He still thinks you are beautiful even without makeup:

This is related but different because you physically feel beautiful around him even without your make up on. Many of us get self-conscious when we're makeup-free in the earlier stages of a relationship. But if your man makes you feel cool and loved whether you're bare-faced or totally painted, that's a great sign for the future. "The day will come when you're going to take your makeup off and drop the facade,". Does he at that point still find you beautiful? OK! If yes then you are with the right guy

3. You're comfortable with him at your worst:

If you can be yourselves around each other, even when you feel like hell, congratulations! There's a good chance you're meant to be. "Are you comfortable with the person in the worst of circumstances? Are you going to be comfortable when you're in a bad mood, when you feel and look like shit, when you're grumpy?" Ok! If yes...You are with the right guy.

4. You want to stay with him when you fight:

Relationship fights are the worst. They're inevitable, but can be painful and make both of you doubt whether you should be together at all. When the dust settles, if you still want to be with him instead of calling it quits, he could be your Prince Charming.

"It's not that there's something magical about him — it's that you care about him enough to get through the bumps,". 

"When there's hurt and misunderstanding and betrayal and you still want to invest in the relationship because there's something worth saving, he's the right one."

5. You're not jealous of him:

This isn't the usual relationship jealousy we're talking about — that's normal in small doses. This is about envy over his success. If you're genuinely excited for him when something good happens and he's the same way with you, your love could go the mighty long way.

"You're not competitive with each other," 

 "The right person will be happy for you, not compete with you."

6. He's not Mr. Perfect:

No one is perfect. Sorry for you if you think you'd find a near-perfect fellow. You'd be so disappointed at it.

  "Beware of the put-together, self-sufficient person because underneath is a raging, dependent infant,".

We are not saying that having your act together is a bad thing. But "appearances can be deceptive," so you need to see his flaws to be sure he's the real thing. People hide their flaws but if he is real enough to unmask and unclad ''personality wise'' and you love him anyway...then he is the right one.

7. He is not mommy's boy:

It's awesome when your guy is close to his mom or dad, within reason. But if he's a little too dependent on them, beware — it could be a red flag. "That's a bad signal, because he won't fully be able to detach when the time is right''. The man who has a healthy relationship with his parents is in a good place to start his own family ... with you, hopefully!

NB: All these wonderful tips also applies to the female folks. So its a two-way-traffic. It goes in both ways.

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